Being pregnant comes with so many changes in a woman’s life. Some of them can be so stressful that you might probably need a break. Yes, a much-deserved vacation!
They call it the babymoon. It’s like your honeymoon, but this will probably be your last before you officially become a mama. It’s a special trip you and your partner will take before you welcome the newest member of your growing family.
Sounds exciting, right? Hurry up and book that pre-baby escapade! But before you pack your bags for a Boracay trip or a Japan trip perhaps, here are a few reminders:
1. Use this time to reconnect with your partner.
A baby can change the dynamics of your relationship so you may want to consider this vacation as your “team building event” with your partner. Discuss how you plan to tackle parenthood together, how you both will go through the many challenges of taking care of a baby, and how you will keep the romance alive amidst all the never-ending list of things to do.
You’ll never know when will be the next time you’ll go on a vacation with him so enjoy this fun and romantic time with him as much as you can. Remember that this is your last chance to create memories as just the two of you before you become the official caretakers of another human being.
2. Go on a babymoon during your second trimester.
For you to get the most out of your vacation, you have to be in your best state. For many pregnant women, this is usually during the second trimester. There are no hard rules though, you can even go during your third trimester. But the second trimester is usually the period an expecting mama will be most comfortable to travel. You do not want to go somewhere far from your OB-GYN a few weeks before your due date as there is always that risk of early delivery.
3. Stay closer at home.
Speaking of the risks and pregnancy complications, you might need to choose a location that’s not too far, especially if you have a high-risk pregnancy. Avoid booking destinations that have outbreaks or are generally not safe. You actually don’t need to cross borders for your babymoon — you can opt for staycations at nearby hotels or resorts.
4. Strenuous activities are a big no.
This trip is supposed to be your breather from all pregnancy-related stress. Err on the side of caution and avoid jampacking your vacation with so many activities. This may be a no-brainer, but it’s not recommended to join activities that are not safe for you and the baby, such as extreme sports, skiing, scuba diving, and others with risks of falling. Take it easy, relax, and enjoy your vacation!
5. Consult with your doctor before going on a trip.
Make sure to speak with your OB-GYN before embarking on your pre-baby sojourn. Depending on your condition, your doctor will be giving you reminders and tips. As someone who knows every nitty-gritty of your pregnancy, they can provide a checklist of the dos and don’ts of your babymoon.
